tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post2621389187572247315..comments2024-01-25T23:16:54.257-05:00Comments on Sir Q and me: SubmissionSirQsmlbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-24095365721223481302013-10-16T22:59:34.844-04:002013-10-16T22:59:34.844-04:00I agree Gemini...they are both an immeasurably val...I agree Gemini...they are both an immeasurably valuable gift!<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-56991775554291949222013-09-26T07:45:26.234-04:002013-09-26T07:45:26.234-04:00I loved reading your point of view here and agree ...I loved reading your point of view here and agree ''being allowed to be submissive'' is indeed a gift..just as I say is the gift of Dominance. <br /><br />Thank you <br />GeminiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-90704503116556009162013-09-22T14:31:47.552-04:002013-09-22T14:31:47.552-04:00Thanks sofia, I appreciate that. It was interesti...Thanks sofia, I appreciate that. It was interesting to be really introspective on this subject. I appreciated the push to look at this side of me. <br /><br />hugs,<br />fiona<br /><br />SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-91821995550043358152013-09-22T14:29:06.130-04:002013-09-22T14:29:06.130-04:00Thank you Penelope. I appreciate your comment and...Thank you Penelope. I appreciate your comment and your compliment.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-67365764884399167832013-09-21T10:22:04.334-04:002013-09-21T10:22:04.334-04:00This is so beautiful, fiona. i really appreciate ...This is so beautiful, fiona. i really appreciate the way you describe this - how you knew you wanted to submit and how it works for you and your Sir. Thank you.<br /><br />sofiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-14141251017975727832013-09-21T08:52:46.145-04:002013-09-21T08:52:46.145-04:00Really beautiful, thoughtful, tender words, fiona ...Really beautiful, thoughtful, tender words, fiona - thank you for sharing them.Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-36126935059128880762013-09-20T23:03:24.445-04:002013-09-20T23:03:24.445-04:00Thank you so much for sharing joelle. There are s...Thank you so much for sharing joelle. There are so many societal pressures to be perfect. I'm so glad you have a master who really cares about you...your health and well being...all of you. Having a partner who helps balance us, helps us find and keep center is such a wonderful thing.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-59809785597497711492013-09-20T22:50:49.219-04:002013-09-20T22:50:49.219-04:00Thanks Renee, I appreciate it.
hugs,
fionaThanks Renee, I appreciate it.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-7327500646647092502013-09-20T22:49:56.978-04:002013-09-20T22:49:56.978-04:00Thanks DF. That wonderful time when you can clear...Thanks DF. That wonderful time when you can clear away the noise of life and just have that clear, quiet, calm space of submission. It is such a gift in the loud, crazy life that I live in too frequently.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-34206836438963475502013-09-20T22:40:39.733-04:002013-09-20T22:40:39.733-04:00I agree, Corinne. It is such a relief to just let...I agree, Corinne. It is such a relief to just let go. To focus on being His. To have the comfort that comes with that. Oh, I am SO grateful that he has the key to my sole. <br /><br />Thanks for commenting.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-45414724535236026332013-09-20T22:36:57.070-04:002013-09-20T22:36:57.070-04:00Well you are right, Joseph, my Sir and I have a pr...Well you are right, Joseph, my Sir and I have a profoundly deep level of trust. I am glad that it comes through in my writing. Thank you for commenting here, I've read your blog and have loved it. I do think that years spent as switches certainly gives both of us perspective on what the other person would like.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-25116428299471807392013-09-20T22:24:06.698-04:002013-09-20T22:24:06.698-04:00Thank you Casey for commenting. As my submission ...Thank you Casey for commenting. As my submission is tied to Him, I don't know if I could or would be submissive without him. Something I hope to never find out. For me, I'm grateful that he's giving me this opportunity (and he's grateful to me as well for giving it.)<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-25075786315919170302013-09-20T22:21:43.138-04:002013-09-20T22:21:43.138-04:00Thank you for commenting Tara. I sincerely apprec...Thank you for commenting Tara. I sincerely appreciate it. I hope to see you around here again. It's kind of a two way street for me...It's a gift given ... my submission TO him and a gift of allowing me to be submissive BY him. I don't know...that's just the way it works for us.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-3519005246637369312013-09-20T22:20:16.273-04:002013-09-20T22:20:16.273-04:00Thanks, joey,
Nope, no doormat here. It's a ...Thanks, joey,<br /><br />Nope, no doormat here. It's a balancing act...submissive with a voice but a respectful voice.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-16503585890951560502013-09-20T22:19:19.838-04:002013-09-20T22:19:19.838-04:00Thanks Natasha. I seem to make progress in fits a...Thanks Natasha. I seem to make progress in fits and spurts. Nope that's not it, it's more two steps forward, one step back and the rare occasion of either three steps forward or three back... But that's life, or at least mine.<br /><br />Thanks for including me. It was wonderful and I feel very honored.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-55193570808948492572013-09-20T22:17:52.718-04:002013-09-20T22:17:52.718-04:00Thank you sindee, and thank you for commenting.
...Thank you sindee, and thank you for commenting. <br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-13556084145061792082013-09-20T20:23:16.364-04:002013-09-20T20:23:16.364-04:00fiona, I love your comment about not being the per...fiona, I love your comment about not being the perfect submissive or your submission being perfect :D That can be such a hard thing- both wanting to be perfect and feeling judgments from the outside on what being perfect might look like. One of my issues is around eating- I'm a recovering anorexic with hypoglycemia. For my well-being, my Master has to order me to eat first. And not just once- if I'm upset, stressed etc, I often revert to some mythologized notion of a perfect submissive who never eats before her master.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-52753403120675674932013-09-20T14:17:07.510-04:002013-09-20T14:17:07.510-04:00So beautiful--you're right, submission is a gi...So beautiful--you're right, submission is a gift, but so is being allowed to be submissive. Wonderful post, Fiona!Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-22588563291563463942013-09-20T13:26:22.353-04:002013-09-20T13:26:22.353-04:00"Being allowed to be submissive is a great gi..."Being allowed to be submissive is a great gift." that is a great sentence. Actually, the whole post speaks volumes to me! Appreciating the now is such a powerful product of submission, being mindful and clear in thought.<br />I also like the concept of being ready to submit - it means eager and keen to me.<br />hugs<br />DFDelFontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02877826634987802545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-18856101729587685552013-09-20T12:29:35.453-04:002013-09-20T12:29:35.453-04:00I love how you said; "My husband gives me thi...I love how you said; "My husband gives me this gift, me being able to be submissive,by choosing to be Dominant with me." That hits it right on the nail for me. It's like he has the keys to unlock this ability in me to allow myself to be submissive. I too have a very dominant side and what a relief it is to lay that down with my husband & be me. The deep down inside me submissive who can be unlocked with that special & exclusive set of keys. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02704111554102663421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-38515285048205996922013-09-20T10:14:00.116-04:002013-09-20T10:14:00.116-04:00I loved your honesty and unique thoughts on "...I loved your honesty and unique thoughts on "being allowed to be submissive" - this certainly puts an interesting and compelling thought into the process and in my thinking shows a reflected trust from both sides. <br /><br />I also think that you having tasted and tested the waters of the Dominant side of life gives you and your partner a level of compassion that others may not. Thank you for you candor and willingness in sharing. It was most unique... Joseph McNamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08603273255233151186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-65804787855642299592013-09-20T08:06:23.000-04:002013-09-20T08:06:23.000-04:00I agree about "Being allowed to be submissive...I agree about "Being allowed to be submissive is a great gift" I also was only thinking about it the other way around. But you're right, it's hard to be submissive if there is no one to step up and be the dominant. That is an interesting way of looking at it. Thank you for your honesty and for sharing with us!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09958878959625455361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-88143814441239017722013-09-20T06:42:12.291-04:002013-09-20T06:42:12.291-04:00I thought your comment of "being allowed to b...I thought your comment of "being allowed to be a submissive is a great gift" was really profound. I had never thought of it like that before - I always saw the offer of submission as the gift. But yes you are so right, for someone to allow you be yourself, to accept your submission and to respect it and you is indeed a great gift. I leave here with a new perspective. Thank you.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-24166375492430573232013-09-20T05:09:16.657-04:002013-09-20T05:09:16.657-04:00fiona,
Well said. A submissive is not a doormat. ...fiona,<br /><br />Well said. A submissive is not a doormat. Very honest and very true of most submissives. <br /><br />Thank you fiona for a thoughtful post on this topic.<br /><br />Hug,<br />joeyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-90723814324381696582013-09-20T04:50:28.526-04:002013-09-20T04:50:28.526-04:00I love your honesty, Fiona. Submission in reality ...I love your honesty, Fiona. Submission in reality is not perfect - at least not for me and it's so good to see it's not perfect for someone else either. It will come but we are all works in progress..a lifetime of it :) Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07220029273749305283noreply@blogger.com