tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post5669698081922129599..comments2024-01-25T23:16:54.257-05:00Comments on Sir Q and me: Kinky VanillaSirQsmlbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-79513804235008054032012-12-02T13:07:58.297-05:002012-12-02T13:07:58.297-05:00Yea, then I'm in good company :)Yea, then I'm in good company :)SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-38145032203213531272012-12-02T13:07:41.208-05:002012-12-02T13:07:41.208-05:00Freudian slip there - haha
(I had figured that)Freudian slip there - haha<br />(I had figured that)SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-40959869373467722112012-11-30T23:06:13.962-05:002012-11-30T23:06:13.962-05:00LOL - I wrote "sex" instead of "sen...LOL - I wrote "sex" instead of "sense". Both probably work, but man, my mind seems to be wandering. Hee.Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-88734630888282177942012-11-30T21:31:27.271-05:002012-11-30T21:31:27.271-05:00Very nice-- I imagine we will always be this way t...Very nice-- I imagine we will always be this way too. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04842027321593278610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-16060829382201074162012-11-30T20:21:51.593-05:002012-11-30T20:21:51.593-05:00Hi Julie...thanks for commenting so I could find y...Hi Julie...thanks for commenting so I could find your blog! <br />It is such a journey, isn't it. <br />It is amazing when we start embracing our desires, live our fantasies (the ones we want to, at least) and being who we want to be in our relationships. SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-61319498129711785932012-11-30T20:18:29.647-05:002012-11-30T20:18:29.647-05:00Haha...ya fondles...deciphered - for a moment -- ...Haha...ya fondles...deciphered - for a moment -- what I have been living in for ... forever :)<br /><br />Ya, the initials help us have a very brief understanding of what someone is or does, but it's not the same thing for everyone and there is always fine tuning within each relationship.SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-78610530241549847312012-11-30T20:11:19.278-05:002012-11-30T20:11:19.278-05:00Thanks Kitty. I have continued on with my commen...Thanks Kitty. I have continued on with my comments, but keep erasing them...so I'll just say thanks...you oddly have given me something to think about =)SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-29966000388218795922012-11-30T20:05:36.556-05:002012-11-30T20:05:36.556-05:00I LOVE that you include a venn diagram...great pos...I LOVE that you include a venn diagram...great post. Thanks for sharing Conina.SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-91800835877947514112012-11-30T17:21:57.486-05:002012-11-30T17:21:57.486-05:00I love this, great way of putting it. If you feel ...I love this, great way of putting it. If you feel comfortable with your sex life, then you know everything you need and want is in it. At least that is how I look at it!<br />DH is slowly starting to grasp the power he has over me. I love it. He is at time speechless. Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08484811892132134437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-87664616114035563502012-11-30T07:17:56.580-05:002012-11-30T07:17:56.580-05:00How is it i missed this?
Ive been thinking recen...How is it i missed this? <br /><br />Ive been thinking recently that i might throw all the initialisms away. Cos what we are is a couple. In love. And our sex life has some unusual elements (for vanilla folk) and our relationship has some element of very defined gender roles (to b really technical, thats really all it is isnt it?) <br /><br />So in fact, we're just like any (vanilla) couple- unique. <br /><br />And vanilla alongside or within or encompassing kink is just different ways of saying u are what u are and happy as u are! <br /><br />Cheers! U just deciphered the mystery of all of this stuff! Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-63675066572331112042012-11-30T01:53:13.731-05:002012-11-30T01:53:13.731-05:00I love this musing - it makes a lot of sex and it ...I love this musing - it makes a lot of sex and it is so positively happy - but of course, I noodled in one particular phrase:<br /><br />I have loved bondage and rarely, if ever, get my fill.<br /><br />That. That right there is why I keep coming back. Vanilla does go away when you power exchange. I think that's the point? Never previously expressed?Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-74187853040899637032012-11-30T01:51:50.283-05:002012-11-30T01:51:50.283-05:00Vinn Diagrams? Girl, you crack me up.Vinn Diagrams? Girl, you crack me up.Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-37822627497428692482012-11-29T15:09:43.608-05:002012-11-29T15:09:43.608-05:00When is it not vanilla? :)<a href="http://exploringsurrender.blogspot.com/2011/09/when-is-it-not-vanilla.html" rel="nofollow">When is it not vanilla?</a> :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-16184771583261843672012-11-29T11:35:16.421-05:002012-11-29T11:35:16.421-05:00OK...so I missed that one...what's the link? ...OK...so I missed that one...what's the link? <br /><br />I think a kink vacuum would be difficult especially when the vanilla world abounds. SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-68447648290291329182012-11-29T01:23:26.748-05:002012-11-29T01:23:26.748-05:00I wrote a post, ages ago when I first started, won...I wrote a post, ages ago when I first started, wondering when it stopped being vanilla.. at what point was sex no longer vanilla and considered "kinky?"... I had Venn diagrams and everything.<br /><br />No one knows.<br /><br />It all bleeds together beautifully when you're doing it right, in a relationship where these things shift and merge and exist in the same place. <br /><br />I suppose it's possible to have a purely kinky interaction with a play partner when your sole reason for relating to each other is kink - but I don't think real relationships can exist in the "kink" vacuum. :)Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-30043834703094891042012-11-28T20:20:20.351-05:002012-11-28T20:20:20.351-05:00Wow mamacrow, many similarities :)
Ya, it's fu...Wow mamacrow, many similarities :)<br />Ya, it's funny that I only realized in the last 10 months that what we did was "kinky"...before that, it was just what we did (haha.)SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-64706924259038203022012-11-28T20:13:51.488-05:002012-11-28T20:13:51.488-05:00Hug-back-atcha joey!
thank you.Hug-back-atcha joey!<br /><br />thank you.SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-19027611863371833012012-11-28T20:13:25.372-05:002012-11-28T20:13:25.372-05:00Oh, I very much agree. We're definitely in a ...Oh, I very much agree. We're definitely in a sweet spot right now. I hope you are back to yours very soon!SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-57634056072191173092012-11-28T20:12:35.792-05:002012-11-28T20:12:35.792-05:00Hugs abby.
Vanilla and kink have always been a par...Hugs abby.<br />Vanilla and kink have always been a part of my life...but they were more separate than they are nowadays. It's a good combination for us right now :)SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-42279498150057298362012-11-28T20:09:48.390-05:002012-11-28T20:09:48.390-05:00Thanks faerie...I'm glad that it's somethi...Thanks faerie...I'm glad that it's something that someone else can relate to.SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-15230326329634969052012-11-28T20:08:28.596-05:002012-11-28T20:08:28.596-05:00Thanks faithful. Yes, it definitely evolves, but ...Thanks faithful. Yes, it definitely evolves, but I do love that I now am secure enough to believe - really believe - that what works for me is right for me!SirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-61088122167481118712012-11-28T15:55:12.215-05:002012-11-28T15:55:12.215-05:00OMG This! So this!
We've also had spanking an...OMG This! So this!<br /><br />We've also had spanking and bondage alongside the vanilla from pretty much the beginning, although we didn't start exploring actual kink - finding terms and such - till quite a bit later.<br /><br />We've also both been switchy for ages, but now seem to be settling into him D, me s<br /><br />and the vanilla caresses inbetween the kink pain - yes! Love it!mamacrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484565827023574347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-38961943803827939162012-11-28T15:17:57.201-05:002012-11-28T15:17:57.201-05:00Very well said.
Hug,
joeyVery well said. <br /><br /><br />Hug,<br />joeyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-71914658460358304052012-11-28T15:01:30.188-05:002012-11-28T15:01:30.188-05:00It's a beautiful way of getting the best of tw...It's a beautiful way of getting the best of two world.<br />It's great to be able to be kinky and vanilla at the same time.Bashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15378333708912059004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-76873919447881225862012-11-28T14:24:59.836-05:002012-11-28T14:24:59.836-05:00 What a great post! Vanilla and kink co-exist for... What a great post! Vanilla and kink co-exist for most of us, you have found how to make the combination work at its best!<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208861579579989418noreply@blogger.com