tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post6051786446196680432..comments2024-01-25T23:16:54.257-05:00Comments on Sir Q and me: Punishment and Discipline and UsSirQsmlbhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-41871894970820378342016-01-17T19:54:31.122-05:002016-01-17T19:54:31.122-05:00thanks nilla. I appreciate your wisdom :)
hugs,
...thanks nilla. I appreciate your wisdom :)<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-53776648339273877642016-01-17T19:53:39.343-05:002016-01-17T19:53:39.343-05:00So so much harder. I don't know why...but it ...So so much harder. I don't know why...but it is. Good luck getting back to 'normal' as well. <br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-91386814837220225502016-01-17T19:53:00.788-05:002016-01-17T19:53:00.788-05:00I certainly hope so...it seems impossible right no...I certainly hope so...it seems impossible right now :(<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-86152836158819216212015-12-17T11:04:06.263-05:002015-12-17T11:04:06.263-05:00yeah. I totally grok this. There is nothing like r...yeah. I totally grok this. There is nothing like rekindling the D/s to make you feel---sometimes just "feeling" is enough...but to be reconnected, put yourself into that perspective, to clear the mind and to ...to just *be*....that just can't be overstated, can it?<br /><br />Just a wee bit of face time with M helps realign me...and like you, we've not played in SO long that everything he does hurts like crazy. And it's good, too. For a long time I've forgotten how good hurt is. How calming and centering it is...even when you want it to stop, stop now, just fucking STOP...and he does what he does and you reach that place...that place. You know the one. I know I can't wait to get back there. :D<br /><br />Sending hugs and love as you work your way back to wholeness...it's a journey, remember, not a destination (trite, but true)...and your path will have ups and downs on it...and still-- you will be okay. When things really rekindle? Wow, you'll just light up the room, won't you?!<br /><br />Hugs and love,<br /><br />nillaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-72147500789066828452015-12-03T00:20:55.185-05:002015-12-03T00:20:55.185-05:00Again, sadly familiar. We too are working on maki...Again, sadly familiar. We too are working on making our way back to 'normal'. (Becoming an orphan was so much harder than I ever expected). I hope that you find the comfort you need in returning to your roles and that it allows you to feel like you again. Be patient and know that the rough patches will happen- they are not failures.<br />XOXO PearlPearl Necklacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11455120796148571047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-20243688390745071082015-12-02T10:01:22.711-05:002015-12-02T10:01:22.711-05:00Grief is different for all of us and can last a ve...Grief is different for all of us and can last a very long time. Bit by bit you will find your way back have no fear of that.<br /><br />Love and hugs,<br />Ronnie<br />xx<br />ronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-62186347807370094242015-12-02T09:18:18.439-05:002015-12-02T09:18:18.439-05:00Thanks Del...Miss you!
hugs,
fionaThanks Del...Miss you!<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-4609496542730992592015-12-02T09:17:53.182-05:002015-12-02T09:17:53.182-05:00Thanks abby...i know it takes time...I'm just ...Thanks abby...i know it takes time...I'm just impatient :)<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-30518452926988889162015-12-02T09:17:31.304-05:002015-12-02T09:17:31.304-05:00Thanks for commenting! I really appreciate it! s...Thanks for commenting! I really appreciate it! seriously. I think the club...the orphan one...sucks. But, it is what it is...so grieving must take place and living must be done. I hope to get back into my grove...desperately.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-15183878564303084372015-12-02T09:16:32.296-05:002015-12-02T09:16:32.296-05:00I hope you find your way back! It's so easy t...I hope you find your way back! It's so easy to revert to old habbits and loose what we loved.<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-32143991937362612032015-12-02T09:15:58.642-05:002015-12-02T09:15:58.642-05:00Thanks Lea...I think we get it back - one spanking...Thanks Lea...I think we get it back - one spanking at a time ;)<br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-69364479752197746072015-12-02T09:14:37.392-05:002015-12-02T09:14:37.392-05:00Been thinking of you, and hoping that you're o...Been thinking of you, and hoping that you're okay. Getting things back to what you want does take so much time, and that's not necessarily a bad thing given the enormity of what you're going through. <br />hugs<br />DFDelFontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02877826634987802545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-21477532290224847702015-12-02T06:07:54.343-05:002015-12-02T06:07:54.343-05:00I am betting that you both find your way back...an...I am betting that you both find your way back...and maybe to something even better. It took me almost a year before i would be reminded of my mom and smile instead of wipe away a tear.....<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15842526901481062563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-30659958870747567882015-12-02T00:01:54.496-05:002015-12-02T00:01:54.496-05:00I always enjoy your posts. I'm such a lurker a...I always enjoy your posts. I'm such a lurker and rarely comment but I was glad to see this pop up on my feed. Grief is a funny thing. It takes forever and eventually without even knowing it, it's a little better and then time passes and it gets easier. Then things happen or memories, dates or even a scent in the air can put you back at square one. Sorry you are part of this horrible club of orphans. Just know that it gets easier. You have a lot of support here too! When you have days that are hard just remember that it will pass and you have a lot to be grateful for. Hopefully you'll get your groove back with DD. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10894094691070916417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-82260763562034646012015-12-01T22:43:30.585-05:002015-12-01T22:43:30.585-05:00All of this - us - now - and the past year really....All of this - us - now - and the past year really. He says we are going to find our way back - so it must be so. I hope you all do - smoothly and easily.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4206921878675382500.post-20901994548661735132015-12-01T21:19:42.426-05:002015-12-01T21:19:42.426-05:00I definitely understand this. I'm grieving and...I definitely understand this. I'm grieving and so much has gone out the window that I'm not sure how we're to get it back!<br /><br />Thinking of you guys. Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.com