Thanks for the Conversation

I love that I get to have a conversation every day, every few days, every week or two with the bloggers on my blogroll.  That's the way I feel about it.  We have a conversation.  I share what's happening in my life (albeit often my sex-life).  I read about what's happening in yours.  I leave comments on your blogs and you comment back and vice-versa.  It's a conversation among friends.

I never thought I would find a community like this.  I never thought I would fit into an online blogging community.  I have read for a while, commented for a bit and am a baby-blogger.  None of these were things I thought would be things that I did.  And yet, I find myself enjoying and feeling "nourished" by the online community that I belong to.

So I wanted to say THANK YOU.  Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your conversation, a part of your life.  But just as importantly, THANK YOU for being a part of mine.

Spanked to the Rhythm of the Beat

I knew tonight would be a stressful evening.  About thirty minutes before the arrival of guests, my Sir tells me to go upstairs.  He turns on music and a song I love, "Little Talks" by Of Monsters and Men, comes on the speakers.

Laying over the bed, with my feet on the floor and my hands stretched over my head, he puts his hand on my back and pushes firmly down.  He takes the hairbrush and begins to spank lightly.  He spanks hard at times.  I notice, quite quickly, he's following the percussive rhythm of the song.

Yes, the actual weapons brushes he used.

Smack smack smack smack Smack smack Smack smack
SMACK (on Hey - if you know the song)
Smack smack smack smack Smack smack Smack smack

It is very rapid and the lighter smacks act almost like rubbing.  It is sensual and rhythmic and messaging.

The Smacks are harder, more of a staccato.  They give a quick, sharp and biting sting, but when immediately followed by the gentle smacks fade into loveliness.

The SMACKs for the "Hey"s of the song are sound and firm, reaching through to my core.  Once again, though, because they are followed so quickly by the gentle smacks, they melt into me.

By the end of the song, he says he wants to look at me and stands back and admires the lovely shades of red that he has painted.

I am ready for ANYTHING.

Liebster Award

I was nominated by aisha  for The Liebster Award.  Here are rules...

• When one receives the award, one posts 11 random facts about oneself and answers the 11 questions asked by the person who nominated you.
• Pass the award onto 11 other blogs (while making sure one notifies the blogger that one nominated them!)
• One writes up 11 NEW questions directed towards YOUR nominees.
• One is not allowed to nominate the blog who nominated one’s own blog!
• One pastes the award picture into one’s blog. (You can google the image, there are plenty of them!)

Here are the 11 random facts:

1.  I am a total geek - LOVE math and science.

2.  My favorite color is blue...I love almost all shades of blue except teal.

3.  I am very adventurous and willing to do most everything, though sometimes I need a bit of coaxing.

4.  On the coaxing front, I love to dance, but it usually requires the addition of alcohol for me to dance in front of non-family members.

5.  I love coffee and hot apple cider in the winter, but also drink milk every day.

6.  I love to drive very fast..it's more of a sport to me.

7.  I love to travel and would go ANYWHERE!  

8.  I love dogs and kids.

9.  I grow out my hair so that I can cut it off and donate it to locks of love, then grow it back.

10.  Peppermint ice-cream rocks my world!

11.  Although I love water, I hate very deep water where I can't see what's below me.

Here are the questions I need to answer for aisha:

1.  Who was your most important role model?  

My husband, Sir is my most important role model (for the past 22 years)

2.  What’s your favorite meal?

Tacos de Camerones, guacamole and fried ice cream

3.  What one food would you NEVER eat?

Veal, Brains, Eyes, Intestines and the like.

4.  What do you like best about being kinky?

How it makes me feel...SO alive...so connected...so in love...so loved

5. Do you have a hobby?  What is it?

Photography, but it may be an obsession more than a hobby.

6.  Is there a sexual position you haven’t tried that you’d like to?

hmmm, there's a whole karma-sutra-of-positions I haven't tried that may be fun.

7.  When was the last time you danced with someone?

This afternoon.

8.  Were you in a clique in high school?  Which one?

I was, in the Geeks, the Jocks and the Rebels.

9.  If you could live in any time era, which one would you pick, and why?

A toss up between Now and the Victorian Age.

10.  Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?  Why?

I prefer giving oral sex because I adore sucking on my Sir's cock.  Now that doesn't mean that I don't like him going down on me.

11.  If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

Ireland or Germany.

Here are the questions I would like you to answer:

1.  What's your favorite implement for spanking?

2.  What is your favorite dessert?

3.  What's your favorite toy in your arsenal?

4.  What is your favorite sport (whether to play or watch)?

5.  City life or country life?

6.  What's your favorite pair of shoes?

7.  Are you with a significant other?  If so, for how long?

8.  Swallow, spit or pull out?  (either you do or have your partner do)

9.  What would your motto be?

10.  Most interesting class you ever took in school?

11.  Describe your kink in 11 words or less.

11 nominated blogs

The Liebster award is for blogs that have fewer than 200 followers, {according to the internet.} I also had to make sure not to include the folks that aisha had already nominated.  Aisha posted later that some disagreed with choosing others to award - that it was showing favoritism.  I wasn't sure what I was supposed to do given the conflicting input...so I went with the original directions...here are 11 - in no particular order :)

~ The Dish with Ward and June with Ward and June ~ I count this a TWO because they BOTH always post.  I have loved hearing both of their perspectives on so many things.  Both on the day to day life that happens and their wonderful connections.

~ New Life in DD with Bas ~ Bas is wonderfully real.  He lets us in on his life and his love.  He is very frank and honest and helpful. 

~ Exploring Surrender with Conina ~ Holy Scorcher.  She is a wonderful writer!  She and her husband know and embrace their kink and it is ... um ... exciting to peek inside.

~ Bright Bottom with Spanky ~ I love Spanky's pictures.  I love his interview with fondles and look forward to fairie's and of course his organization of CWS.

~ Life Under a Firm Hand with Mrs. Soft Bottom ~ She and Mr. FH have such a normal life.  It's wonderful to hear about kids ups and downs, their struggles and successes.  He is certainly embracing his inner-Dom and it's fun to come along for the ride.

~ Joey and Friends with Joey ~  Joey is the best of Spankos.  His adventures in spanking are inspiring!  It's fun to live vicariously :)

~ Smiling Belle's Journey with Belle ~  Belle is upbeat and makes me smile (as her title intones).  She provides vanilla life - romantic posts, posts about kids, and kinky posts that give us something oh so hot!

~ the Life of Liz with Liz ~ I love to hear about Grandma getting ready to move in, the craziness with the kids as well as delicious spankings and fun that ensues.

~ The world of Joolz with Joolz ~  I look forward to her adventures.  They are so well planned and push so many limits and are H..H...Ho...HOT!  But I have even enjoyed her 30 days of submission and day to day insights.

~ What does it mean to be Dominant? with Sir J ~  He is so insightful.  I love his posts and have learned a lot about the D side of things.  That sounds so cliche, but I really have gleamed a lot from his insights.  Incidentally, some of his posts are extremely ... combustible.

Pacified

Last night was a first.   We were lounging in our bed and he was laying diagonally across it.  I rubbed his feet and we talked.  When I was done, we finished our conversation and I leaned down.  I got comfortable and began exploring my Sir.  With my mouth on his cock; sucking, licking, kissing. I was taking my time, lavishing his hardness with a slow, gentile, exploring, enjoying, dare I say worshiping blow job.  It was lovely.  I was content in my service.

...

      time passes

....

I am very comfortable, my breathing slow.  I lay my head on the top of his thigh at his groin and just suck - gently suck.

...

      time passes

....

It's dark and silent.  My cheek is warm, my body is tangled with Sir's.  I am safe.  Instinctively, rhythmically, I suck.

      ***Oh My God***

I was giving Sir head!

      ***Oh My God***

I have his cock IN MY MOUTH!

I don't move my head, my body or my mouth.  My tongue has created a suction with his cock and the roof of  my mouth.  My tongue doesn't release his cock.  I suck, my tongue undulating against his length.  I close my eyes and drift.  He has pacified me.

Not Just in the Bedroom

Growth.  I have found such peace, contentment, happiness, eroticism and ecstasy in my submission.  As I grow in my submission, Sir grows in his Dominance.  He pushes my limits and explores my submission, and not just when we are in our bedroom.

We were staying with vanilla friends of ours this past weekend.  Now, typically, I have been a very opinionated, sometimes challenging, often cheeky wife.  I have found that though I still very freely share my opinion, I am much more respectful and much less cheeky than I used to be.  I like that.  I am proud of that.  I feel better about myself, that I am learning to speak my mind in a respectful way.  

I wanted to share two small things which had a huge effect on my psyche, among other things.  At one point my Sir and our friend were talking in the living room.  He asked me to do a couple of things - both of which were very reasonable.  I did them and when I came back, he told me in a very normal voice, "You are such a good wife, aren't you?"  Our friend glanced at me, as this was out of character.  Typically Sir wouldn't have made a comment like that and if had done anything similar, I would typically have some response that ranged from very cheeky to scathing.  I would have liked to ignore his statement, but darned if he didn't ask me a question, making it so I had to answer.  As my pussy clenched and stomach did a somersault, I smiled and looked at him and said, "I hope so."  Our friend smiled at me, then went back to his discussion with Sir.  I was flooded with emotion.  I loved the affirmation that I was a good wife.  I was mortified loved that he said it even though our friend was there.  I was so content, happy, gratified, excited, turned-on, proud, satisfied.  

I looked at him later, when we were alone, and said, "You're getting more brazen."  He looked at me, pulled my hair tight (which of course pulls that invisible string inside of me) and whispered into my ear (which electrifies me) and said, "You need that, don't you?"  I just melted.

YES I DO!

Later that night, we had been out with some friends.  We were getting ready to go into a bar and I was annoyed (not with him).  We were walking in last and right there, on the sidewalk, he grabbed my hair, pulled me back two steps and gripped tight.  He once again whispered in my ear.  "Be Good!  You.  Are.  Mine.  I want you to be a good girl.  Do *pulls hair* you *pulls hair* understand *pulls hair* me *pulls hair*?"  What is a good girl to do?  "Yes, Sir" I say immediately.  I am back, I am reset, I am compliant, I am his and I can do anything!   Oh, I may be a bit wet too =)

Oh how I love TTWD!  Oh, how I love my Sir!