"You're just so cute," he says
Hrmph. When he says that, it makes me feel like a school girl. I know it's not necessarily how he means it, but that's how it comes across. That it's silly or it's somehow childish. I was saying something to him that wasn't meant to be cute...it was just a statement.
"You hate it when I say that."
"Yes."
"I think that's why I like saying it so much."
"You ARE a sadist."
"Only for the past year or so. But you like me being this way. That's why I like it so much."
**blushes**
oh he knows me so well.
You know those moments, when he vocalizes that he is enjoying being the way he is. When he acknowledges being a sadist or me being a masochist...weather in an extreme way or in an extremely minor way, like this example above, it is so meaningful to me. He loves me the way I am. He enjoys being the way he's being. Reassurance. Realization. Acknowledgement. Satisfaction. Contentment.
He knows you so well. :)
ReplyDeleteHug,
joey
Most of the time, it's alarming how well he knows me...then...every once and a while...there's the HOLY SHIT - how could you NOT KNOW that?? It's too funny (sort of).
DeleteHugs,
fiona
Hahahah.. except when it's NOT funny... at ALL. lol
DeleteYes ma'am. Except when it's not. Oh well.
DeleteOh, I love those moments too!!
ReplyDeleteThey are just so out of the blue and soooooo fabulous!!
Delete~fiona
I think its great when there is that acceptance of we are who we are and being confident about it.
ReplyDeletehmmm im not so good at being honest with myself about my masochism, i know i am but i..oh i dont know..i shall stop there lol
x
Here's the thing tori...you just said you were. So, there you have it. Sometimes saying it out loud just seems so...risky...so OUT THERE...so definite. But...as you say, we are who we are...
DeleteHugs,
fiona
Master puts it as....
ReplyDeleteus truly being us...
hugs abby
YUP...us being us...
Delete**stupid-silly-grin**
hugs,
fiona
It's so good to feel that you are together in this.
ReplyDeleteEXACTLY!!! That's it! Thanks Bas. It is just that acknowledgement, that affirmation, that we, that WE are WILLINGLY in this TOGETHER.
DeleteThanks!!
=)
fiona
I didn't realize it was just recently, you guys seemed to have those roles for so long as well as it both sounds.
ReplyDeleteWell...it's complicated. We've been together well over twenty years. We were switches for the majority of that time. A year and a half ago, we became D/s with him as a static "D" and me as a static "s". So...as non-switching rolls, we are only a year-and-a-half in...as kink and power exchange and relationship together...it's been FOREVER!
Delete~fiona
You guys are seriously adorable. :)
ReplyDeleteAh, Shucks. Thank you ms. kitty. We do try =)
Deletehugs,
fiona