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Saturday, October 12, 2013

Nothing

Here's hoping.

Sir walked up behind me.
He put his arms around me and hugged me.
I laid my head back against his chest.

His hands began to wander.
They lifted my shirt and rubbed my stomach.

His hands rubbed higher.
He deftly...no, I can't say that
He awkwardly took off my bra
And began to play with my breasts

My nipple were erect and he
Twisted and turned and tugged.

I tried.
I always adore nipple play
It's the BEST.
I turned my head to the side
Keeping it against his chest
And cried.

I am just turned off.
I felt him playing and felt nothing.
Nothing erotic
Nothing exciting
No physical response.

I cried.

How do I find the on-switch?
How do I feel?

I have laughed.
I have smiled.

Why can't I feel?

My poor Sir has been so supportive and patient. He deserves attention. He deserves his Fiona. But I'm turned off. I feel no submissive desires, no sexual desires, nothing.
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22 comments:

  1. AnonymousOctober 12, 2013 at 5:09 PM

    just like everything else, Fiona, it takes time. ((hugs))

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  2. geekie kittieOctober 12, 2013 at 5:13 PM

    I agree with HS .. it sounds like you are in mourning ... suffered a traumatic loss(?), I am sorry you are in such a bad way. Let Sir take care of you & you will find your way back. Things will get better :)


    Best wishes
    (((hugs)))
    gk

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:40 PM

      Yes, gk, I am. Sir is trying his best...I'm working on finding my way.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  3. faerie wingsOctober 12, 2013 at 5:36 PM

    Having gone through this recently myself one might think I had some great advice, I don't. Just give yourself some time, be gently with yourself and do not expect everything to be better instantly. Take baby steps, celebrate the small accomplishments. It will come back.

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:41 PM

      Thanks faerie. I appreciate this...especially knowing what you've been dealing with. I absolutely hate feeling...this sadness or nothingness. I want...desperately want to feel like me. I'm not patient...it's difficult.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  4. abbyOctober 12, 2013 at 8:39 PM

    HUGS my dear friend......trust Him, trust your love, and give it time. hugs abby

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:42 PM

      Thanks abby. Trust is easy...being patient is NOT.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  5. BloggerOctober 12, 2013 at 9:53 PM

    I'm sorry!!! I hope things get better with time. Lots of love.

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:43 PM

      Thanks dag. I appreciate that! Time will heal all...I just need to weather the time.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  6. ancilla_ksstOctober 12, 2013 at 9:58 PM

    If you are in mourning, give yourself more time to grieve. It really is ok to be not your normal self at this time. Big hugs!!!

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:44 PM

      Thanks ksst. I am mourning and the sadness is profound. But I'm working on the grief...thanks for the virtual hug!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  7. DelFonteOctober 13, 2013 at 3:47 AM

    (((((HUGS)))))
    DF

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  8. toriOctober 13, 2013 at 2:29 PM

    Hugs, lots of them

    As has been said, give it time, it will all come back.

    x

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:45 PM

      Thanks tori! I appreciate your support.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  9. AnonymousOctober 13, 2013 at 4:17 PM

    Fiona,

    Time will heal.

    Hug,
    joey

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  10. AnonymousOctober 14, 2013 at 11:49 AM

    fiona, all good things come in time not everything is instant gratification. The best things comes from patience and hard work. So give it time and look forward to the best of times.

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:49 PM

      Thanks sindee...sadly, I'm not great at patience. Hard work I'm just fine with...but patience is difficult.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  11. nillaOctober 15, 2013 at 8:49 AM

    LIght and love to you both...it's a process that takes time. I know you hate reading that. It took me a year to feel again. I spent 12 months being numb, tuned out. Maybe I could have had drugs to get me back up again, but I didn't and I eventually emerged from the miasma...and crying is its own way of healing. Love you...

    nilla

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    1. SirQsmlbOctober 16, 2013 at 10:50 PM

      Thanks nilla. That crying part is killing me. I'm not a crier and this crying is exhausting!

      hugs,
      fiona

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THANK YOU
-fiona

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