About Us


So, my Sir will call me his mlb
It's something he has said, for a long time now.  It means "My Little Bitch," but when others on the blog commented with suggested meanings, I found another meaning that I loved.  "Masochistic Little Bitch!"




My name is fiona and I have been with my husband, Sir Q for well over two decades.  

For much of the past two decades, Sir and I were a couple who switched D and s roles at a whim.  We regularly had vanilla sex, but more frequently had some D or s as part of the dynamic.  But who was being Dom and who was sub depended on the day and on the need. 

After a life crisis, the switching stopped being our norm and D/s became D (Sir) and s (fiona).  This has been 100% fulfilling for me.  I have NO need to be Dominant.  It is not something that EVER is part of my fantasies.  I have never - not once - thought about it in a fantasy.  If I ever dominated Sir and had an orgasm, the fantasy in my mind was one of submission.
We have a few rituals.  We carry D/s outside of our bedroom, but are discrete. We adore each other and are each other's best friends, we are honest and open and kinky as hell.  

WE make TTWD what it needs to be for US and  ...  it WORKS!





You may always ask questions or send me e-mail at 
SirQsmlb@gmail.com.  

You see, the conversation matters to me.  
I have found friendship on the web.  
I have found answers from other bloggers, 
both prior to me blogging and after.  

I have asked such mundane questions as...
"what have you found to be the best method of bikini hair removal" 

to kinky questions like... 
"what's the best toy for ______" 

to lifestyle questions like... 
"how do you prepare your body for ______".  

I have learned and grown as a person, as a submissive and as a wife because of the give and take of blogland. 

So please, feel free to join in my conversation!  

I will always try to answer questions and comments.

8 comments:

  1. Dear Ms. Fiona,

    I just wanted to say thank you for sharing so openly on this blog. I have been a reader for a while and have recently begun my own personal journey deeper into the lifestyle and started a blog. The dynamic between you and Sir Q is absolutely breathtaking to read about and is both educational and inspirational to those of us starting out now.

    Wishing you all the best! Have a lovely night.

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    1. Dear Ms. Kitten,

      Thank you for de-lurking and commenting. I so appreciate the conversation that occurs when bloggers and commenters communicate.

      Sir and I are so fortunate that we adore each other. We work hard on our relationship...even after all of these years. We communicate a lot and that makes a huge difference.

      I just found your blog and look forward to reading there. I wish you all the best on your journey!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  2. I've spent quite some time all over yuppie blog the past few days since I found it.I personally are pretty knew to the whole blogging thing.I hope my writing would get half as good as yours always is. I've learned a lot. thank you so much for writing your life story and looking forward to eating a whole lot more about you and your journey through this

    -ash

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    1. Hi ash! Thanks for commenting!! I still consider myself a pretty new blogger...so I understand. I have a long way to go! I look forward to where my journey may lead me =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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    2. Whoops. I didnt realize how many spelling mistakes there were there. Autocorrect on my phone decided to mess up. Sorry!

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    3. No problem, I can relate. I do the same thing!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  3. I love your blog. I just read a few entries, and I can't wait to read even more. :)

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    1. Thank you, Kenzie, so much for commenting Kenzie. I'm glad you enjoy my blog. Please feel free to comment and engage as much as you like!!

      hugs,
      fiona

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Thank you very much for sharing your comments. This blogland world has become so much more meaningful because of the conversations that y'all have with me through comments...REALLY!

I appreciate them all and will endeavor to answer EVERY comment if at all possible!

THANK YOU
-fiona