About Us

So, my Sir will call me his mlb. 

It's something he has said, for a long time now.  It means "My Little Bitch," but when others on the blog commented with suggested meanings, I found another meaning that I loved.  "Masochistic Little Bitch!"




My name is fiona and I have been with my husband, Sir Q for well over two decades.  

For much of the past two decades, Sir and I were a couple who switched D and s roles at a whim.  We regularly had vanilla sex, but more frequently had some D or s as part of the dynamic.  But who was being Dom and who was sub depended on the day and on the need. 

After a life crisis, the switching stopped being our norm and D/s became D (Sir) and s (fiona).  This has been 100% fulfilling for me.  I have NO need to be Dominant.  It is not something that EVER is part of my fantasies.  I have never - not once - thought about it in a fantasy.  If I ever dominated Sir and had an orgasm, the fantasy in my mind was one of submission.

We have a few rituals.  We carry D/s outside of our bedroom, but are discrete. We adore each other and are each other's best friends, we are honest and open and kinky as hell.  

WE make TTWD what it needs to be for US and  ...  it WORKS!

You may always ask questions or send me e-mail at 
SirQsmlb@gmail.com.  

You see, the conversation matters to me.  
I have found friendship on the web.  
I have found answers from other bloggers, 
both prior to me blogging and after.  

I have asked such mundane questions as...
"what have you found to be the best method of bikini hair removal" 

to kinky questions like... 
"what's the best toy for ______" 

to lifestyle questions like... 
"how do you prepare your body for ______".  

I have learned and grown as a person, as a submissive and as a wife because of the give and take of blogland. 

So please, feel free to join in my conversation!  

I will always try to answer questions and comments.