LOL

Happy 

Love Our Lurkers 

Day!!

I know there are a couple of you who read

but don't comment.  

I did - for a while.  

• I didn't want to screw something up and let someone know who I was.
• I didn't want to say something that would be construed as "dumb".
• I didn't think I would have anything to add to the conversation.
• and on and on.

But here's the thing.  As a blogger now, I have to say that I appreciate EVERY comment.  Truly.  I really appreciate people taking a minute to let me know they're there…weather it's just to say hi or to give sage advice or funny snarky comments.  I do appreciate them all.

SO for those who don't know what to say here are some options…

KINKY:

• What's your favorite sex toy and why?
• What's your sexiest jewelry?
• What's your favorite erotic book?
• Where's the more memorable place you've had sex?

VANILLA:

• What's your favorite song right now?
• What's your favorite color?
• What's your favorite cookie?
• Where's your happiest place to travel?

PLEASE Comment and let me know you're lurking!

THANKS

LOL Love Our Lurkers Day

Wow!  The eighth annual
LOVE
OUR
LURKERS
Day!!!
Thank you Bonnie for organizing!!


I lurked for a very long time, reading about peoples fantasies, experiences, reviews, stories.

But to comment.  Oh, the stress!  I had to set up an account to comment on any non-anonymous blogs...what if I said the wrong thing...what if the blogger didn't appreciate my comment...what if what if what if.

So, you know what I found out?  I commented and the blogger responded!  It was like I was part of the conversation.

As a blogger now, I have to say, that commenters are a gift.  I really appreciate everyone who has commented.  I have made a commitment to respond to EVERYONE who comments.  If I have missed someone, it is an accident and will fix it if you let me know.  I truly appreciate you taking the time and making it a conversation.

So....as it's LOL day...here's your chance.  Take the plunge.  Make a comment!

Don't know what to say?  Here are some suggestions...
1.  What's your favorite BDSM/erotic book?
2.  What's your favorite sex toy?
3.  Why do you like to read here?
4.  Just simply say - "Hi - I'm here!"


I am grateful that you come and read about my slice of life.  

Hugs,fiona

LOL 7 + First Month-a-versary!

Thank you Bonnie for organizing!!

So I'm new...only been at the ONE MONTH TODAY!!! 

Happy Month-a-versary Me!

So...I've only been a non-lurker for a about five months.  I lurked for a very long time.  Then, I agonized about making my first comment.  You know what they say about flood gates, then commented on everything I could.  I loved the connection I started building with the bloggers of the blogs I loved.  Then...upon the suggestion of a blogger that I commented on regularly...I took the leap and ... Wa-la.   Here I am....a blogger (what - how did that happen?)

As it's only been a month, I know I don't have many lurkers out there.  But if there are any of you out there, I would truly love to meet you.  I know you may not know what to say...so here are some possibilities:

1.  What is your favorite name 
2.  What is your favorite color
           (I was about to say..."What is the air-speedvelocity of an unladen swallow?")
3.  What is your favorite book, song, or movie - ALWAYS looking for new artists/movies/books!!!
4.  Just simply say - "Hi - I'm here!"

I am grateful that you come and read about my slice of life.  

fiona
(1 Month Old)