Tuesday, November 12, 2013

LOL Love Our Lurkers Day

Wow!  The eighth annual
LOVE
OUR
LURKERS
Day!!!
Thank you Bonnie for organizing!!


I lurked for a very long time, reading about peoples fantasies, experiences, reviews, stories.

But to comment.  Oh, the stress!  I had to set up an account to comment on any non-anonymous blogs...what if I said the wrong thing...what if the blogger didn't appreciate my comment...what if what if what if.

So, you know what I found out?  I commented and the blogger responded!  It was like I was part of the conversation.

As a blogger now, I have to say, that commenters are a gift.  I really appreciate everyone who has commented.  I have made a commitment to respond to EVERYONE who comments.  If I have missed someone, it is an accident and will fix it if you let me know.  I truly appreciate you taking the time and making it a conversation.

So....as it's LOL day...here's your chance.  Take the plunge.  Make a comment!

Don't know what to say?  Here are some suggestions...
1.  What's your favorite BDSM/erotic book?
2.  What's your favorite sex toy?
3.  Why do you like to read here?
4.  Just simply say - "Hi - I'm here!"


I am grateful that you come and read about my slice of life.  

Hugs,fiona



60 comments:

  1. Today is the anniversary of something else for me, but I will merge that with the Love our Lurkers day.
    Lurking is an institution. However, they should come to surface, at least once. :)

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    1. thanks for surfacing David. Happy Anniversary!

      ...and thanks for commenting!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  2. I read here a lot but don't believe I have ever commented, sorry! Good blog.
    Happy LOL day.
    Janey

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    1. *waves* HI!

      Thank you for commenting. Please feel free to comment ANY time!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  3. Fiona,

    I sometimes lurk:) but always enjoy my visit.

    Happy LOL Day.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Thanks ronnie! I'm thrilled to have you lurking.

      Thanks for commenting today =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  4. Fiona,

    Happy LOL day. I love your blog.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Thanks joey...I love yours as well!

      hugs,
      fiona

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    1. Thank you so much for commenting DJ Black. I appreciate it!
      Please feel free to comment ANY time =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  6. Hi Fiona,

    Happy LOL 8 day! I'm a regular visitor to your blog, and always enjoy your posts.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. *waves* Hi Hermione!

      I didn't know you read here...thanks for letting me know!

      I love your blog!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  7. Hi fiona. My first time here - I'm using LOL Day as an opportunity to investigate some uncharted territory, and I like your blog very much. :)

    Even as I type, I find myself continually distracted by your LABELS list over there on the right. Some very provocative words in that little cloud. I think I could spend the rest of the day just clicking on those, but unfortunately that means nobody else would get a visit!

    I've made a note to come back...

    Best wishes,

    U.

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    1. HI!!!! Thank you so much for commenting! I promise I do not bite...anyone other than my Sir, and I ALWAYS get into trouble for that!

      I hope to see you around and feel free to comment ANY time. I love to hear what others like or think or you're welcome to ask questions. I'm happy you're around.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  8. Hi Fiona,
    I Joined this blog not long after you started it and have come back and enjoyed reading along here.

    Happy LOL Day,
    # MrBBSpanker

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    1. You did. I remember. That was when I couldn't believe that ANYONE would ever follow my blog. Can you believe that I still am dumbstruck that ANYONE reads here =)

      Thanks for de-lurking to say hello!

      Hugs,
      fiona

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  9. Fiona,
    Happy LOL day. I never know what to say so I will answer a question instead. Right now I really enjoy reading Cherise Sinclair. If you haven't read her books check them out.

    Have a great day,
    Mellie

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    1. Hi Mellie,

      Thank you so much for saying hello. I am working my way through Club Shadowlands right now. I'm on Breaking Free and I am loving the series. What is your favorite?

      hugs,
      fiona

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  10. Happy LOL Day Fiona! I don't believe we've said hi before, but I know we've visited.

    Looking forward to getting to know you!
    -Clint and Chelsea
    Learning Domestic Discipline

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    1. *waves* HELLO!

      we've visited??

      I'm happy you commented and look forward to hearing more from you.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  11. Hi..Im here...buatyou know that. Happy LOL day my friend.
    hugs abby

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    1. HI my friend. Thank you for commenting. I love your blog!

      Happy LOL day!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  12. I just recently found your blog, and Im so glad I did. :) Happy LOL day!

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    1. Hi Kenzie, I'm happy you did as well.

      Please feel free to comment any time. I'm happy to have the conversation!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  13. Fiona, I really like your blog! I rarely comment. Always read though. Happy LoL Day!

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    1. Thank you Miss Chickadee. I'm thrilled you read. Please feel free to comment any time you wish.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  14. Hi Fiona, I know I've turned into a bit of a lurker myself lately. Just haven't been able to get in the right frame of mind. Go figure, lol. Any way, just wanted you to know I am still reading and hope be better at commenting too :)

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    1. Oh faerie, I can COMPLETELY understand, though I desperately wish I couldn't. Thanks for de-lurking today. It means a lot.

      HUGS!!!!
      fiona

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  15. OK, I know, I'm not a lurker, but I can't resist the opportunity to say hi to you and add my comment to your list of admirers.
    hugs
    DF

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    1. Hi Del *jumps up and down*

      I'm thrilled you're here and that we are part of each other's blog conversations.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  16. Not really a lurker. I just thought I would say hi and I enjoy your work. Maybe you deserve one spank for every comment today? (or two)

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    1. Hi Michael. Thank you very much for the idea...I'll have to ask Sir...then maybe regret it later - nope...not a chance. I will definitely ask Sir, no regrets!

      hugs,
      fiona

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    1. Thank you Chross...I didn't know you read here! Thanks for de-lurking today!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  18. Not sure if I have commented before but glad I found your blog. Happy LOL day!

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    1. Hi Zoe! Thanks for commenting. I'm happy you're here. Please feel free to comment any time!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  19. I always read and love your blog- and sometimes I comment too! Happy LOL day!

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    1. Hi KSST! Thrilled when you comment, but happy you are around! I love reading yours as well!

      hugs,
      fiona

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    1. Hello! Thank you so much for de-lurking today!
      Please feel free to comment...ANYTIME.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  21. Hi Fiona, I'm not really a lurker but wanted to take the time to say how much I love your blog. I'm glad your part of this community. Thanks for sharing your life with us. Happy LOL day!!

    xo

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    1. Thank you so much bonnie....what a kind comment! That warmed my heart.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  22. Hihi! I'm a lurker and I love your blog. :-)

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    1. Thank you Tamar...I'm thrilled you de-lurked
      *waves*

      Please comment any time you like, I'm happy you're here.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  23. Hi Fiona! I'm not a lurker, but must confess something -- I have to read your posts when I'm not at work. :) "Whew, is it HOT in here or what?!"
    Happy LOL Day!

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    1. heheheheheheh...

      Thanks Rogue...that is sweet (I think)

      Thanks for commenting!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  24. *peeks in* LURK!!!!

    Oh wait! ;)

    Happy LOL! (apparently I have gone bonkers today)

    :D

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    1. hahah...Hi gk....thanks for *peeking in*
      =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  25. Hi, Fiona. I NEVER thought I would comment but I thought LOL day would be a good day to say hello. I looked back at the post that hooked me. Pacified. So I guess I have been lurking about a year. Love your blog.

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    1. YEA JESS!!!!!
      *waves*

      I'm so glad you've commented. You broke your commenting cherry...so now you can comment away! I hope be able to reply to future comments, they're ALWAYS welcome! Wow, a year! I'm glad you're here.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  26. Fiona,

    I enjoy your blog so much and have been lurking for about a year...

    A

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    1. *waves*
      Hi A! Thanks so very much for de-lurking to say hello. Please feel free to comment in the future - anonymous is just fine! I'm happy you're here!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  27. Yes...mouse lurks here...

    Honestly, she lurks everywhere...HA!

    Hugs,
    mouse

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    1. Hi mouse!!! I love your blog. I had no idea that you read here! Thanks for de-lurking...here...there...everywhere =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  28. I enjoy your blog, hi.I think I mau our may not have commented a few times

    " the siren" by Tiffany Reisz

    -ash

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    1. Hi ash! Thrilled to have you comment today. Thank you!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  29. Nooooo - I hate when that happens!!
    Just wrote a long comment and didn't know how to post it in your format, and the whole comment disappeared!!!
    I'll try again:
    Dear Fiona
    I discoverede you through Sofias blog and have been a lurker since. I'm not a regular reader, but log in occasionally on the BDSM-blogs I like.
    What I like most about your blog is the way you describe the dynamics of BDSM in a long-term marriage. Often your stories make me tear up - tears of empathy for your suffering (emotionally), tears of recognition and joy, when you describe the conversations between you and your Sir.
    Now and then i want to show Mylord your stories, but haven't - he might get ideas from your Sir...
    grins
    LadyP

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    1. I have had that happen with me before. I am so sorry, stupid blogger ate your comment. I appreciate your comment all the more for the additional effort it took!

      Don't you just love Sofia. She is one wise Sub =)

      Thank you for telling me what you like. This comment really means a lot to me. Thank you. I frequently wonder why anyone would ever want to read my blog. I'm glad it speaks to you when you get a chance to read it.

      Oh, show him! He may have fun and LadyP-Perfect twists to things that SirQ does to me. You never know...may be good!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  30. Lurking. Thank you!

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    1. YEA!!! Thank you for saying hello! Comment any time!

      hugs,
      fiona

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Thank you very much for sharing your comments. This blogland world has become so much more meaningful because of the conversations that y'all have with me through comments...REALLY!

I appreciate them all and will endeavor to answer EVERY comment if at all possible!

THANK YOU
-fiona