Life Long Learning

We're snuggling after...some fun, when Sir says,

"I don't know what books you're reading,
but you have really gotten good at giving blow jobs."

Don't think I could have smiled any bigger.

---------------------------BUT---------------------------

But...Of course, I couldn't leave well enough alone
and had to continue to over think...um...everything :)

So, when we had a minute alone I quietly said,
"so what have I changed to make them so much better for you?"

Thank God - what he has perceived as changed and better
is indeed what I've been trying to change and focus on
- that could have been bad.

So....those things...

well among them was,
Licking, more.  Focusing on the vein under his shaft.
Licking his balls more and sucking on them and touching them.
Nibbling and kissing.
Rubbing my tongue around the tip more.
Adding more variety...suck, kiss, nibble, swirl, lick, suck...etc.

So....sad, isn't it...
I've been giving this man blow jobs for well over twenty years
and I went too frequently past a quick kiss or lick or three,
straight to sucking and taking him deep and going up and down on his shaft.

So...fabulous, isn't it...
I've been giving this man blow jobs for well over twenty years
and I didn't become too complacent and
still want to learn how to make our sex life better...
and thank goodness, so does he.