Saturday, January 17, 2015

Permission

Well...We've never been those people...
hehehe

That sounds so funny...

those people.

Sir has never required me to ask for permission
to...
um...

shit.

He's never required me to ask for permissiontoorgasm.

BUT.....

Well....

Now I must.

I am not allowed to cum
unless he has given me permission.

It is...weird.

So far, I have been successful...
but it's weird to ask Him in the middle of
being fucked
or played with
or ....

But so far...
The cum when I do ask is
all the better for having asked!

19 comments:

  1. ahhh...welcome to the club....for me too....it does make the moment or moments...more explosive.
    hugs abby

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    1. So how did it start for you? Did he require it from the very beginning or did it happen gradually? So far...though I am so early in this tradition...it has been EXPLOSIVE!

      hugs,
      fiona

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    2. He started gradually, judging when i was ready and telling me to cum. My ex had convinced me that i could not have an orgasm...so He had a lot of stuff to get me over. Hint....slowly your breathing down helps me a lot.
      I rarely...like never get a no..... hugs abby

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  2. Yes welcome to the club, I agree with abby it makes it more explosive and probably intense too. I am required to ask permission and then to tell Him that it belongs to Him and to thank Him. :)

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    1. You are so right julie! I like how your master works :)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  3. I'm with you on the weird though. It was a difficult transition. Before I could moan and that was about it. Having to focus long enough to beg to cum when I was that close is harder than one might imagine. But oh so worth it!

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    1. You are so so so right. It's that balance between waiting until you are close enough and yet...not too close OMG...it's hard to balance. But so far...so good!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  4. Like the others, welcome to the club. In fact, for me, on the rare occasion I am told yes when I ask if I can come, I have to think back to a few seconds earlier and ask myself if I heard it right.

    I thin eventually you'll the opposite. You'll feel like it is a strange thing to cum without having asked for permission first.

    Great post!

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    1. Thanks for the welcome ;)

      I am very lucky that it's not a rare occasion that he says yes - thank goodness!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  5. I'm so used to being told to come that the opposite is weird for me. Lately he has been working on "tell yourself to come and make it happen" with me. So I have to give myself the command.

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    1. Wow...but you two have done so much work with orgasm control and command. I'm so impressed and envious!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  6. I did have to ask permission in my last relationship (10yr) but was often told no, sadly now out of that one and into another with 3 years in between, I found I actually cannot orgasm now clitoris or vaginally. It just won`t "pop", nearly get there, but no going over the cliff so to speak. It amazed me just how "brain washed" my mind was, without evening knowing it. Good aspect is, I can orgasm through anal sex (that was never controlled before). So, we are working on "unwiring" my mind for the others. So a bit of a free for all here at the moment, without control and encouragement to POP!

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    1. I love having orgasm control. It is incredible. Sometimes just a pinch on my clit when he orders me to orgasm really sets me off. The only thing I have issue with is that my pussy and clit might get overstimulated and it doesn't feel as good as it can. Ty is getting really good at knowing the exact moment when to let me fly

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    2. OMG...I hate that he took that from you ...that sucks! I am so glad that you are working with someone wonderful who is working on helping you recover your pleasure!

      hugs,
      fiona

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    3. Wow Blondie. I am so glad that you and Ty have a great balance! That's awesome!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  7. i was always told when you ask for something instead of just taking it but worked for it, it is always better
    So enjoy

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    1. Hmmmmm...very cool way to think of it louise. I absolutely agree!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  8. I ask permission out of habit I think, although it's not really required. The few times he says "No" I pout like an injured animal until he allows me to release. Very powerful indeed!!

    He does require me to count out loud each time I orgasm. Oh, HELL I love counting.
    XOXO Pearl

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    1. Pouting...hmmmm...sadly I don't think that would work for me...luckily, His sadistic tendencies doesn't seem to spread to reducing my orgasms...unless I'm not behaving well.

      So counting...what do you mean by that??

      hugs,
      fiona

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-fiona