Thursday, October 22, 2015

Ups and Downs

Well...we've certainly had LOTS of ups and downs.

We're still alive
Still having sex
   (though there's been ups and downs due to grieving)
Still NOT vanilla
   (ya, that ships sailed...we're never going to be vanilla)

Sir is working on finding his footing...
  being a good Master and yet, being soft and sweet when I need that too.

I am erratic - yes I know that's to be expected.

But I just want some normalcy.


Sir is giving me more lists and I am liking that.
Tasks to do daily.

I'm wearing a plug more often...
it's so centering...though when you haven't done it in forever it's also ... challenging.

He is spanking some...though kids being around more and up later is hindering that.

WHAT do you all do when you have kids in the house??

I need a good beating like you can't imagine...
but the noise is a problem!

The sex is...good.  He tied me up and tied me down and played a lot last Friday.
That was wonderful.  Sadly it'll be a few weeks before that can happen again.

Oh well.

Ups and Downs.

I'll share more specifics later.

I will try to be back around blogland more.
Sorry for the absence.

Hugs to you all!

OH YA, the other question I had was...any new wonderful blogs you're totally addicted to or having fun trying out?  I've been away and need some advice on new blogs :)


  1. I know it has been a difficult few months, but so glad to see you back here, and whats more that the M/s is still going from strength to strength. Hugs to you xxx

  2. Hiya toots! Good to see you back! And I have a kid, he's 11 and Q and I carefully avoid dropping any hints about our sex life and/or our BDSM life around him. It is challenging! We sneak a bit of sex in here and there at night after my son's asleep, but the BDSM stuff has to wait till he's out of the house. Luckily (well, I guess it depends on how you look at it lol), I'm divorced and my son goes to spend every other weekend with his daddy, so that leaves Q and I to romp every other weekend. Theoretically, anyway- there's plenty of times we're either too busy, too tired, too sick, and/or something comes up on my ex's side to keep him from taking our son, so...still. if we can fit in a scene a month, we're doing good. We just try to be patient and love each other through it. Good luck figuring out what works best for you!

  3. Haven't read your blog for a while, but obviously you have lost someone. so my condolences to you. Hopefully things will improve soon. Just relax and take your time though.
    Hugs Lindy

  4. So glad more ups them downs. So glad He is there. Just keep trusting Him.

  5. Good to see a post from you. Hope those ups are helping you.
    As for blogs, not that many new ones, Ronnie keeps track of new ones once a month. One I like, by a Dom - Tall, Dark and Dominant.


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