Sofia had a post a bit back that included some fantasies.
As I read hers fantasy, As I began to fantasize myself . . .
. . . it struck me. My fantasies are so often similar to the ones that she has shared. She's not the only blogger who has written fiction or fantasies that are similar to mine, though.
That then lead me to think about my fantasies. I find it interesting that mine will change in location and in intensity and toys and other specifics, but at the heart, many of my fantasies are the same as they have been since I started having them.
The other thing that struck me is that I didn't really start fantasize until late in life, at least I think it was late in life. It wasn't until...probably freshman year in college...that I really fantasized about anything sexually.
So, back to the fantasies. The theme that most regularly appears in my fantasies is one of being objectified, used, or being trained in some way. I am sure that part of the reason for this is my feelings of being an under-educated lover, my desire to be a good lover, my fear of not being a good enough lover. Interestingly, Sir has NEVER made me feel this way, he has built me up tirelessly. But, it is something that I worry about, nevertheless.
I adored - like TRULY ADORED Aisha's fantasy of her training school. I have loved nilla's stories which can touch on being used or trained at dungeons, camps and other places. Conina's stories which frequently involve a heavy dose of humiliation, objectification and being used. Oh, YUM to these and many many more blogs that I read!!
So, why are my fantasies....like ALL of them....focused on these themes? Why do I desire this? Why does thinking of being used, being humiliated, being trained make me cum faster than...um...anything else?
There are all of these books out there on dream analysis and I want fantasy analysis! I want to understand this part of me, this portion of my psyche....but I currently don't know how.
Do others fantasize about similar things? Do you? Do others fantasize about a wide variety of themes or do you fantasize about one theme track, as I do?