Thursday, February 6, 2014

Switch Realization

So, we rarely switch anymore.

Like almost never.

But last night,
Sir asked and

I enjoyed!
(actually, I hope we both did)

I had a thought about the experience,
I think I learned something…

Sir is NOT a masochist - at all.
While he wouldn't mind a nice
flogging or spanking,
He would not want something
hard or intensely painful.

I, however
have serious sadistic tendencies.

While switching, I
have to make sure to remind myself
to be a kind and sweet Top
because that isn't what comes naturally
(naturally I would frequently want to
do what I love being done to me.)

When not switching,
I am a masochist!

I love it hard and intense!

This morning, Sir put me on my knees
and in my place and
before work I had a wonderful hard spanking.
After that, Sir put my hand on his rock hard cock,
reminding me how grateful I am that
though he doesn't like things to be rough for himself,
but he enjoys being a sadist with me!
I am grateful!

8 comments:

  1. One more reason why the two of you seem perfect for each other....
    hugs abby

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    1. Thank you abby! We are very good together!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  2. fiona,

    You are amazing. I really think it is wonderful that you will step out of your comfort zone to provide your husband something he needs at the moment.

    Agree with abby, you are a perfect match.

    Hugs,
    joey

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    1. Thanks joey. We're very lucky to have each other. I am glad that he can ask for what he needs and thrilled that I can provide it!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  3. oh, this is lovely!
    I've had to adjust my top style a bit too, kind and sweet and cherishing works much better.. and he likes to indulge me just a little so I can let my sadist side out too.. just a bit!

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    1. It's wonderful that we can fulfill what each other needs, isn't it, mc? I'm grateful.

      hugs,
      fiona

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  4. Sounds perfect! So glad you were both able to enjoy!

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