Tuesday, November 6, 2012

A Slap in the Face

A slap in the face elicits such a depth of emotions.  I know that face slapping is VERY controversial. People either love it or hate it.  It can conjure up bad tapes from our youth or relationships which weren't healthy in some way.

Two things to keep in mind about this issue and me.  First, until we explored him slapping me in an erotic way (yes, it is erotic for me), I had never been smacked.  Therefore, I had none of those bad tapes or unhealthy relationships with regard to face slapping.    It was something that I was neither excited about or opposed to.  Second, my Sir and I have been together for over 20 years.  Yep, been together... FOREVER!  In that time, we've always pushed each other's limits.  It's funny to think that there are any left.

I don't know when the first time was that Sir slapped me.  I know I asked hinted that I was interested in it.  I believe he was apprehensive about slapping me.  I find that kind of funny because he has NO qualms with so many other things.  He spanks me, flogs me, whips me, pinches me.  He clamps, binds, and fucks me in a myriad of ways.  He's not ever seemed to have a problem with degrading or humiliating me.  He's not struggled with our power exchange.  While he has been gentile at times he has also been rough, very rough.  But this...smacking my face... he seemed to struggle more with.

The first few times he would smack me, it was a very light tap on the cheek.  It wasn't just ok with me, it was a turn on.  But I wanted more.  I continued to ask hint for more.  Sadly, looking back, I don't think I ever really asked.  I felt ashamed that I liked it so much.  You know, that old feeling that something must be wrong with me if I like this.  So much of society tells us that smacking someone's face is wrong.  Society often says it is inappropriate in ALL circumstances.

The first time he smacked me - really smacked me - open hand, firm, *smack*, I remember gasping.  I also remember the thrill, the depth of submission that I felt, the flood of wetness it produced.  I was in my place, I was His, and I was WONTON.  It was a claiming like I had never known before.  I LOVED it!  I loved it so much, I didn't care if it was inappropriate to everyone else in the universe.  I was going to deal with my embarrassment, my shame and embrace my desire!  What's more, He liked it.  He didn't just like it, he was wicked turned on!

When he slaps me, I am immediately pliable.  I am open.  Over-caffeinated-butterflies take up residence in my stomach.  Everything clinches inside and my pussy is wet, like immediately, seriously wet!  This all happens in an instant and the results are undeniable.   While it is a gross understatement to say that it excites me, it would also be an understatement to say that it excites him.

We have explored face slapping for a while and now he doesn't even have to fully slap my face to have the same effect.  He can simply caress my cheek and it evokes the same feelings.   Don't you just love Pavlov's theory in action...just a caress and I have the same physical and emotional response.  Even though I have the same response, I often will lean into his hand, silently inviting imploring him to ... slap me.


10 comments:

  1. Oh oh oh....this is something that I have often thought about what it would be like.....I have never mentioned this one to Mr. B, I don't think, well...not that I can remember....but I do wonder how I would feel about...then I wonder what would he say....would he even go there?...would he want to? then what if he liked it...like realy liked it.....oh here lately, my mind is doing nothing but saying "what if" and "wondering" all over the place!

    Belle:)

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    1. Isn't it funny ... the things we worry about, when you consider the things we do and have done? I wonder why that is. And Yes, I so am with you on the whole "what if" thing...oh the worrying that can be done =)
      Let us know if you ever give it a go!

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    2. I actually emailed him this post:) Not sure what will happen....but we shall see:) hmmmmm.....time will tell

      Belle:)

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    3. Yea Belle...that's a huge leap! I hope you like where it leads.
      I can't wait to hear your tales :)
      Life's an adventure...hang on and enjoy the ride!

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  2. I love being slapped accross the face, its a short sharp way of getting my attention and its just so primal, i do agree that its something that is considered controversial and i wander if this is because of the association it has with domestic violence?

    There is something about it i find hugely erotic, but i cant put my finger on what exactly.

    x

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    1. Oh, yes, attention is definitely IMMEDIATELY given and I think primal is a wonderful description. For me, part of the eroticism is the claiming of me...the absolute power that I give and he graciously takes. I don't know, but erotic - for sure!

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  3. This is something I don't think I've ever mentioned on my blog. I never even considered slapping, until the first time he did it. It shocked and surprised me, but I was hooked. Like tori, I can't really put my finger on why it turns me on so much, but it surely does :)

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    1. Oh, I was leery about posting this, because it is controversial. But, I do love it, I do crave it sometimes so ... my blog about my life - why not - right?
      I am glad you shared your feelings about it. There is wonderful solace in knowing that I'm not alone!

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  4. One day I think he's gonna do it. He's just building the anticipation until then.. because I swear he's pushing the line on it constantly.

    Anyway. Yes. Good post, and not a topic I see around a lot. Well done - and nicely titled this post-election day. ;)

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    1. Oh...I can't wait to hear about when he actually does it...and what you think.

      As I said to faerie, I was worried about posting something about it because it's ... not PC. But like I said...it's my blog about Sir and me...and it's definitely part of my kink! Gotta love ttwd!

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