Answers to ksst and del's questions

1. Thanks for asking questions...
   

   

   
   

   it's kind of fun to think outside of my little box -
   as this is a sex blog - that's kinda funny
   (outside of my little box, Bwahahaha)
2. Anyway...please feel free to ask questions by commenting to this post
   ...anything anytime....
   but as it's March - it's question month -
   so, ask away in comments (you can remain anonymous)

   1. 
      ancilla_ksst asked, "How are things going now?  The last few posts were kind of not quite sure where things are?"
   2. Answer:
      Personally, I'm a mess. I'm grieving and stressing and trying to get
      my life back to some semblance of order.  
      
      Sexually, I'm a mess.
      I fluctuate between being a-sexual and submissive
      but in a relationship that fluctuates 
      between me being a Domme and a sub
      
      Professionally, I'm a mess.
      I dislike the folks I work for now,
      but enjoy the work and am good at it.
      I'm trying to decide what to be when I grow up
      (again).
      
      So...I think I'm still a bit of a mess.
      But, as ever, I'm optimistic...
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      DelFonte asked, "If TTWD is different from a year ago, what has worked, what hasn't?"  

   4. Answer: 
      It is HUGELY different.  I was solidly ensconced in my submission.  Actually, I had just given my Sir my Slave registration papers at Valentines Day.  Man, could that only be a year ago?  It seems like forever.  I was holding onto my submission with all my worth...it was helping me cope with caring for my terminally ill mother.  
      
      What worked...my mindset was great, I was committed and had embraced my life as Sir's property.  Sir was very engaged and attentive.  We spent a lot of time, together, focused on each other, supporting each other.  Sex was awesome and frequent - daily or multiple times a day frequently.
      
      What didn't work...Sir was consistent and sometimes inconsistent.  I found times when I was pushing it, simply to get attention. That's silly - I know.  I also had such a desire to connect with others...be a part of the community where we live.  I don't know if that would have been positive or not, but that had always been a yearning last year.
   5. Interesting questions!  Thanks to you both!!
   6. Hugs,Fiona
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