Again, I would like to thanks y'all for the questions. If you have any additional, please feel free to ask away...as it is MARCH. If you have questions for my Sir, I'm happy to relay them as well as his response.
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BIKSS: While you were switching, did you ever have any idea that you would, one day, want him to be the Dom and only the Dom or was it a "Eureka!" moment?
First, THANKS for commenting and asking a question!! Oh, I always had that though. OK, wait. That's not quite right. I always loved him being a Dom and me being a sub. That said, I liked that with a healthy dose .... or even more ... of vanilla. I don't know when I had the thought of being submissive, in and out of the bedroom, 24/7. But...upon a personal crisis/tragedy, there we were and it was exactly what I needed. I have been grateful every day since. I tell him "Thank You" on a regular basis. I hope that answers your question.
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Belle: Is there any one thing that your Sir does that completely irritates you to no end? Like completely drives you crazy but you know it will never change and it will always be? It was there in the beginning and well, it will be there until the end and really you just have to try to love that part of them and just smile and shake your head when it happens:) If you do, what is it?
When we were younger I would have said it was that I came second in his life...after school or later work. But as I've been with him - FOREVER - what I have learned is that he is committed to me and our family 100%. That does NOT mean that he will drop everything for me. That does NOT mean that he will ignore everything else to be with me. That does NOT mean that he will ditch a commitment that he has made in order to spend time with me. That means that he is committed to making money and providing well for me, among other things. It means that he honors his commitments to me and to others. He is honorable, he is trustworthy and dependable (do I sound like the Boy Scout Law). I do love that about him, but there are just times I wish he would say...YOU, fiona, are more important than life itself and I will blow off everything else to be with YOU. (I may not love the bankruptcy and starvation and homelessness that ensues though.)
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Belle: Oh and does your Sir have this same thing on you......Do you do anything that irritates him to no end? (we all know of course you don't...but I just have to ask to be fair hahaha)
Hehehe...I asked him and he first said that he needed to think about it. When I asked him again, he quickly said, "The fact that you will walk out of your socks and shoes anywhere and everywhere no matter where you are!" I followed it up with "Seriously, that's it. You want me to post that?" "Yes, but I still have high hopes of correcting that behavior." with an evil grin. Ugh!
I hoped those answered your questions Belle.
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When we were younger I would have said it was that I came second in his life...after school or later work. But as I've been with him - FOREVER - what I have learned is that he is committed to me and our family 100%. That does NOT mean that he will drop everything for me. That does NOT mean that he will ignore everything else to be with me. That does NOT mean that he will ditch a commitment that he has made in order to spend time with me. That means that he is committed to making money and providing well for me, among other things. It means that he honors his commitments to me and to others. He is honorable, he is trustworthy and dependable (do I sound like the Boy Scout Law). I do love that about him, but there are just times I wish he would say...YOU, fiona, are more important than life itself and I will blow off everything else to be with YOU. (I may not love the bankruptcy and starvation and homelessness that ensues though.)
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Hehehe...I asked him and he first said that he needed to think about it. When I asked him again, he quickly said, "The fact that you will walk out of your socks and shoes anywhere and everywhere no matter where you are!" I followed it up with "Seriously, that's it. You want me to post that?" "Yes, but I still have high hopes of correcting that behavior." with an evil grin. Ugh!
I hoped those answered your questions Belle.
Thank you fiona. It is fun getting to know you better.
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joey
Thank you Joey...it is fun getting to know each other, isn't it. At this rate, we'll know a LOT about each other by the time we're 85...hehehehehehe!
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fiona
Great answers.
ReplyDeleteIf you could go back and talk to the old you, when you were in high school, and inform yourself of 4 things, what would you say?
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Thanks ronnie,
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fiona
"but there are just times I wish he would say...YOU, fiona, are more important than life itself and I will blow off everything else to be with YOU."
ReplyDeleteOh so much this. :) (except with my name)
Well...I'm glad that there is ANYONE else with similar experiences!
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Thank you fiona! Thank you for sharing :)
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Alexis
Thanks Alexis!!!
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fiona
Thank you so much for answering my questions fiona:)
ReplyDeleteBelle:)
You're so very welcome belle. Thank you for asking them!
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fiona