Friday, March 8, 2013

Answers Four Thru Six


Again, I would like to thanks y'all for the questions.  If you have any additional, please feel free to ask away...as it is MARCH.  If you have questions for my Sir, I'm happy to relay them as well as his response.


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julia:  In what areas have you seen changes since starting ttwd other than really obvious ones? (so outside the bedroom I guess)

Yes, well there are the obvious ones....with regard to the actual things done in our bedroom (or where ever else we happen to have sex - hehehe).  So outside of the bedroom, I've noticed Sir as being more take charge and confident.  I also notice him as being more observant, or maybe it's that he cares and knows how to stop behavior that is inappropriate by me.  I have also noticed that I am much more laid back, just in general.  As I've become middle aged, I know that I've mellowed.  However with ttwd I have also mellowed as a result of my desire to submit and his willingness to Dominate.  Because here's where the rubber meets the road, we BOTH must do those things for this D/s relationship to work.  I have to be willing and so does he.  But I am much less controlling, I worry less, I stress less - I can just let go.  I don't have to drive all the time, I don't  have to comment on everything that he does or says, I can let him take care of me, I can let him take care of the kids when they are being rude or inappropriate.  I can stop trying to control, EVERYTHING.  I feel much more content and much more grounded.

How about you, how has ttwd changed things for you?

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bleuame: What is your favourite thing about blogging in this 'niche'? and what do you dislike about blogging in this 'niche'?

Oh is one is EASY.  The best part is the people.  I love love love the bloggers and commenters!  It is AWESOME.  I have made friends and I really enjoy the conversations that I have with others through posts and comments. 

I've learned a lot about myself, become more comfortable with myself, my desires, my relationship with the support of this online community.  

The thing that I dislike is the need for anonymity and that separation of Blogland vs. IRL.  I feel like everything I write I have to constantly be on the look out for saying something I shouldn't, something that would "out" me or my family.   

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aisha:  And what is your favorite thing about TTWD?

Hmmm....(think Sound of Music)

Thick cock in my mouth and pre-cum on my lips
Belts, floggers and canes caressing ass, tits, thighs and hips
Subspace found as I sore away on D/s wings
These are a few of my favorite things

OK, in all seriousness, I love how alive and sexually reconnected Sir and I have become with ttwd.  We have ALWAYS been very sexually attracted to each other.  For the past couple of decades, we have had a LOT of sex.  TTWD is responsible for the insane sexual intensity that exists.  We also talk a LOT.  We talk about everything. TTWD fosters that communication, that openness, that for us is essential in having a healthy amazing marriage.

Thanks aisha.  So, what's your favorite thing??



10 comments:

  1. And now i have the song in my head ;)

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    1. hehehe...you're welcome!!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  2. Thank you. Excellent answers.

    You and Sir know how to have fun.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Thanks joey...we sure do love to laugh and...love each other =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  3. More talking and more sex..now there's a recipe for a great relationship...as you and your Sir have shown!
    hugs abby

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    1. Thanks abby...we certainly talk A LOT!! I think that's why we are each other's best friend!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  4. Hi, fiona,

    Nice answers - i LOVED The Sound of Music part!!

    As for me - the thing i love about TTWD is that it's let me express parts of myself that have been neglected in vanilla relationships ~ it's made it safe not to have be responsible for everything, not to always be the rock everyone else could lean on. i'm most grateful for that.

    hugs,

    aisha

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    1. Thanks aisha...I appreciate your answers too!

      hugs,
      fiona

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Thank you very much for sharing your comments. This blogland world has become so much more meaningful because of the conversations that y'all have with me through comments...REALLY!

I appreciate them all and will endeavor to answer EVERY comment if at all possible!

THANK YOU
-fiona