- Please feel free to ask more questions or follow-up, March Question Month is over half over :) I'm also happy to ask my Sir, as I know you rarely actually hear from him…as he doesn't read or write anywhere in blogland. But I can ask and relay information.
Blondieasked and I'll answer:
1. Do you have, or plan on having a collar. And if so, when and where would you wear it.
Sir would like to get a collar for me. He has mentioned it many times. He wants a choker that I would wear all the time. I am reticent. I don't love tight choker collars. I don't know...we'll see. Maybe a compromise? Does anyone have any recommendations? I was thinking anklet maybe?
2. Is there a fantasy that Sir has that you will make happen?
Sir has frequently fantasized about allowing another in a scene with us. He's thought of a woman that he can Top and who will in turn Top me. He would like to see me eat her out and suck on her tits and her spank me and fuck me. Similarly, he's fantasized about giving me to another man to be used. As for me making them happen...I would love to - either. But only under his direction and command. But I would love to serve another as part of his command. I doubt he will ever act on these fantasies, but I would certainly be willing :)
Sir has frequently fantasized about allowing another in a scene with us. He's thought of a woman that he can Top and who will in turn Top me. He would like to see me eat her out and suck on her tits and her spank me and fuck me. Similarly, he's fantasized about giving me to another man to be used. As for me making them happen...I would love to - either. But only under his direction and command. But I would love to serve another as part of his command. I doubt he will ever act on these fantasies, but I would certainly be willing :)
I will preface my comment by saying that you should get whatever collar or collar substitute works best for you. I, like you, are not a fan of chocker collars. So Sir found a beautiful store on Etsy and had a locking chain link necklace made. It's too loose to technically be considered a collar, but the weight of it is delightful. I take all the standard meaning from it, and Sir has the key. So it counts for us, and I can wear it all the time (shower, daycare, etc.) and still feel comfortable. Good luck finding something that works for you.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds delightful! Where was the shop? My email is sirqsmlb@gmail.com...would you email me with any info? We're actively looking for something :)
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fiona