We arrange to meet at my hotel at 7:30
and We'll follow her to a restaurant.
I get my kids out of the shower (after swimming)
at 7:10 and at 7:21 I get a text
"I'm here" (we're supposed to meet at 7:30)
By the time the kids and I make it outside,
She's waiting by my car.
We drive to a restaurant and go inside.
We're all chatting and after about five minutes,
her Sir comes up to the table and kisses sofia on the cheek.
I stand up and introduce myself and give him a hug
(did I mention I'm a hugger?)
He's ... sweet?
OK, so I type that then think...should I say that?
He was, though.
He was kind to my kids and talkative.
He's got a quite voice, gorgeous hair and eyes that are...
captivating? probing? experienced?
He's got a thousand stories and more history and information.
He's happy to talk to my children - youngest to oldest...me...sofia.
It's not awkward. It's not strange.
Funny...there were a couple of times I thought...
do any of us seem submissive? Dominant?
Are there any signs?
No one here seems the slightest bit kinky.
No, we just are people, having dinner,
sharing stories, talking.
It was comfortable. It was fun.
sofia and I got to talk a tiny bit,
but mostly, it was Sofia's Sir and my children...
and I filled in or explained things the kids said.
When we left and said our goodbye's
sofia's Sir gave her a kiss that was ...
Not because it was inappropriate.
Not because it was explicit.
(my children were there)
But because it was filled with love.