Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Abby's Answers

  1. Thanks for the questions.

    I really appreciate them, really!
    It's interesting to explore questions that people ask...think about something I haven't thought about before...things that I often just hadn't thought about or explored.  So...really - Thank YOU!


    I will answer in a couple of posts.  Please feel free to ask more or follow-up.  I'm also happy to ask my Sir, as I know you rarely actually hear from him...as he doesn't read or write anywhere in blogland.  But I can ask and relay information.


    Abby asked and I'll answer:
    1. I know that yours used to be a 'switch' relationship, if possible to share, what caused that to change....one event or some discussions?
    Well, it's sort of complicated and sort of easy.  The easy answer is that I had a devastating series of events that shattered me and Sir stepped up and grounded me and held me together with his Dominance.  

    2. You can choose 1 'toy' to give away forever, what do you choose.
    The fucking HAIRBRUSH!!!  But sadly, my hair may object =)

    3. Is there something that you have not been spanked with, but would love to try?
    A whip…I think…
    (or several other peoples hands)

    4, When did you first realize you were submissive?
    I had the feelings within the first few months of dating my Sir…over a couple of dozen years ago.  Though, I didn't put the word to the feelings until a couple of years ago.  I did life those dozens of years as a switch…so spending time being a submissive and embracing submission and then Topping for Sir.

18 comments:

  1. fiona,

    Be careful what you wish for. The whip is really nasty.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. I know…it's never wise to wish such things =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  2. Thanks for the great answers....the whip can be nasty....but its sting is also something special!
    hugs abby

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    1. You'll have to write a post about your whip experiences miss abby =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  3. We have a dragon tail whip, but I'd love to feel a bull whip. Sigh...what's wrong with me! Lol

    hugs
    p

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    1. Nothing…NOTHING!! hehehe!

      hugs,
      fiona

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    1. I would love to know what it was like, but I worry that it would be too much for me. Probably not something I would experience.

      hugs,
      fiona

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    2. I'll just say that I find being whipped way more fun than being paddled. Paddles make me cry. Everyone experiences things differently though, and it also depends a lot on how hard he's doing it.

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    3. OK…so now I'm seriously interested…now to find someone to whip me … or a whip for Sir to master so he can do it to me =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  5. When it comes to whips I will stick to the cream variety. Many hands? That does sound more intriguing.
    hugs
    DF

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    1. hehehhehehehe…whip cream is yummy!! Especially when placed in some fun places!!!!

      hugs,
      fiona

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  6. Love your answers! I have a question for the both of you to answer .. Do either of you have a fantasy you haven't explored yet, that you want to?

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    1. Thanks Kenzie! I will ask Sir =)
      (and of course answer myself)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  7. yup. that fucking hairbrush.

    so here's a question or I should say, several of them, after reading those answers...: would you ever see your role as slipping back into a Switch with your Sir? Would HE see that, now that he's been the Top for so long? and have you (or would you) play with others (a dungeon scene or something more private)?

    nilla

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    1. hehehe…thanks nilla! I'll give it some thought and look forward to answering =)

      hugs,
      fiona

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  8. Very interesting. I didn't realize you were a switch for so long! A whip terrifies me right now, but maybe someday...

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    1. Yup, Sir and I were switches for…a LONG time, over 20 years. Yikes! We'll see, I doubt he will ever try a whip.

      hugs,
      fiona

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Thank you very much for sharing your comments. This blogland world has become so much more meaningful because of the conversations that y'all have with me through comments...REALLY!

I appreciate them all and will endeavor to answer EVERY comment if at all possible!

THANK YOU
-fiona